Sunday 27 August 2017

Jay Z Reveals Reason He Named His Twins Sir And Rumi

In an interview with Rap Radar which hosts Elliot Wilson and Brian Miller, JAY Z. Jay Z revealed how he and Beyonce came up with their twins names. He said “Rumi is our favorite poet, so it was for our daughter, Sir was like, man, come out the gate. He carries himself like that. He just came out, like, Sir.” Jay Z further  revealed how their firstborn, 5-year-old daughter Blue Ivy, ended up rapping a freestyle on his new album, the sexuality of his mum and more.

How To Know He Is Not Into You

He Constantly Talks About His Ex: It's fine to bring up the ex once in a while under very neutral contexts, e.g.,  "My ex has the kids this week." But talking incessantly about prior relationships is tacky and might also imply that there are still some unresolved issues lingering in his head, whether it's rage, resentment or doubt. This rule applies to you too. Do not mention your previous love life and its contents, including: pet names, restraining orders or sex.


He tells you he's not ready for a relationship: I can't believe how many times I've heard women dismiss this statement and continue pursuing unavailable men. These guys will flat out tell you that they don't want to commit to you, but here you are, baking them cookies, enjoying naked sleepovers and gushing to all your girlfriends about what a catch he is. Because, "once he sees how great you are,  he will surely commit.
If this is you, please find someone to slap you back into reality.

He wants to get into a relationship immediately: Refusing to commit to you is not a good thing, but neither is moving into a relationship at lightning speed. Relax, you aren't Benjamin Button-- you don't have five minutes to fall in love and have babies. If your man tells you he loves you or wants to commit to you during or shortly after the first date, something is up. (Unless of course, you do too, and it's love at first sight for both of you.)
He hasn't asked you out: This should be a given, but I can't tell you how many times I've heard people texting or g-chatting for months and months before any attempt at physical contact is made.  If you're seeking mild flirtation or a virtual relationship, texting is fine-but if you want something more, then he needs to make a move in real life. If you're at a point where you don't want to wait anymore, stop waiting. You shouldn't have to force someone to ask you out.

He doesn't let you go near his phone:  This is also a given, in my opinion. But I have firsthand witnessed relationships in which phones are private property, locked and guarded with military-like defense systems. If your partner has issues about letting you see his phone, then chances are, he's hiding something sketchy.

 No Chemistry! He may have a great career, a nice apartment with hardwood floors, a humanitarian heart and killer abs, but if he doesn't make your heart all warm and fuzzy, he's not it. Chemistry isn't instant-- sometimes, it can be discovered gradually, like in these situations. But, after a certain point, you will know if that spark is missing.  And if that's the case, be gentle and kind. After all, wouldn't you want to be let down just as easy if someone just wasn't that into you?
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Wednesday 23 August 2017

Rihanna Sprays 6.8 Million Dollars On New Mansion

Just three months after a stalker broke into her New York penthouse, Rihanna buys a $6.8 million mansion in Hollywood Hills, reported by E! News. Now, the singer is definitely working it out as she has acquired a luxurious mansion in Hollywood.  E! had reported that the 7,130 square-feet mega-mansion is worth $6.8 million and that leaves us stunned. It sits on close to a half-acre which looks over the Sunset Trip in Los Angeles. E! Has reported that the new property is fully secure and is sure to prevent trespassers. If you are anxious to have a glimpse of where the work , work , work , diva would be spending her personal the soon, then below are photos of the mansion gotten from E! News.

How Sitting All Day Gives A Bigger Butt

For some this might be good news but for others this might just be a night mare. If you are comfortably sitter then kindly stand up because this news would determine if you would continue sitting.
Sitting down for hours can broaden your rear and cause excess fat in your bottom.
This warning comes from a scientists who usually researches on bed sores which can affect those bedridden or in a wheelchair due to paralysis. They revealed that sitting for long periods of time as most of us do at work produces up to 50 per cent more fats and scans of their buttocks showed the muscles where shrinking and breaking down due to lack of exercise. More surprising was the discovery that fat cells seemed to thrive on the inactivity, infiltrating the muscle, and creating thick ‘stripes’ of fat! So if you have a job which does not help exercise your butt frequently it is advisable to take breaks and go on short walks or do some butt exercises when you get home. Remember fitness can never be over emphasized. Photo Credit: Getty

Secret Wedding Photos Of Funke Akindele And Spouse Released As They Celebrate Anniversary

Funke Akindele and JJC Skillz are celebrating their first wedding anniversary and they decided to share photos from their secret wedding. It was rumoured that they were set to wed, but the state of their relationship was kept a secret until their honeymoon. You would recall that last week, new photos and video of the Funke spotting a baby bump surfaced. Photo Credit: Getty

Taylor Swift Soon To Release New Album

Popstar Taylor Swift just announced the release date of her new album titled “Reputation.” On August 18 the popstar wiped her social media account. Over the past year, Taylor hasn't really has a rosy relationship with the media. Taylor on her Instagram also announced that the first single off the album will be released tomorrow, Thursday. She has also shared a photo of the album art, announcing that the album will be released November 10. Photo Credit: Getty

Tuesday 22 August 2017

Carolina Danjuma Claims To Be "Born Again"

Caroline Danjuma has claimed that she’s now celibate, and this has developed confusion among her fans.
Some have even asked disturbing questions about her marriage to a billionaire.

Writing on her Instagram today, the former actress shared the finger rosary she got from her church recently, adding that she has been blessed by a priest.

“Dedicated to Christ. Felt so elated after the priest blessed me,” she wrote in the post, adding a series of hashtags in which she noted that she is now “celibate” and is “waiting on the Lord, one step at a time. [I’ve] been wishing on this for so long. It wasn’t easy but it was worth it.”

She continued, saying that she is still “finding” herself, however, it is “a whole new world” because she is now “reborn”, she said. Photo Credit: Getty

Sunday 20 August 2017

Lady Shares Heart Warming Tribute Of Adopted Daughter

With joy a lady on Instagram shared a heart warming post and gave a beautiful tribute to her adopted daughter  of over 17years. She had this to say.
On the 5th of August 2017, my legally adopted daughter Ngozi Udenwa got married to the man who was specially handpicked for her by God himself….. A wonderful young man I must say.

Some of you already know a bit about how she became my daughter but the majority of you have no idea and I wish to share the amazing story of our journey together as mother and daughter…..
In the year 2000, barely 2 months after I gave birth to my first child, by sheer happenstance I got a second househelp….. My first househelp had gone home to see her family briefly and I needed someone to cover for her until she returned….. My parents got me the second househelp to help me with my new baby so I could face my studies squarely, seeing that I was a 5th year medical student at the time. That second househelp was Ngozi Udenwa my daughter….. She was only to stay with me for a short while, just a few days but she ended up staying with me until the 5th of August 2017….. More than 17yrs in total!!!
Bride Ngozi & her husband and Ada & husband.
When she came into my care, she was a lovely, humble, lowly, young innocent beautiful girl whose only ambition in life was to be sent to school….. She had completed primary school but was yet to commence secondary school….. She was very passionate about going to secondary school at all cost, and I assured her that not only would she go to secondary school, she would also go to the University and be a huge success under the care of my husband and I….. To the glory of God’s mighty name Amen 
And so our journey started….. I quickly observed that she was a very humble, patient and kind hearted person….. Ngozi approached every task you gave her with equanimity…. She was never flustered nor irritated….. She always did her tasks thoroughly and with great conscience ….. She was also particularly honest, trust worthy and hard working, she hardly ever complained about anything and when she did, I always took her seriously, knowing that for her to talk, it must be something of great significance ….. A very mild mannered, meek, respectful, tolerant and peaceful young lady….. She was a pleasure to have in my home….. She treated my children like she was their own mother, she would cry when they were sick, I was amazed at the love she showered on them whether I was around or not, her behaviour towards them was always the same…. She treated them exactly the same in my absence as she did in my presence….. And that was one of the best things about her….. She was always without any form of pretence….. Ngozi did not know and still does not know the meaning of “eye-service”….. With her what you saw was what you got whether she was being watched or not….. The consistency in the goodness she exudes greatly endeared her to my husband, myself and all the members of our families who had the opportunity of dealing with her….
Everyone admired the dedication with which she loved and cared for my children and my home….. She is the kind of person you can leave your kids with and go to Timbuktu and sleep with your 2 eyes closed, confident in the knowledge that your children would be cared for as if you were the one caring for them yourself…. As the kids grew older, they testified to the goodness of Aunty Ngo as they all refer to her …..
My husband and I enrolled her in secondary school as soon as she settled into our home….. And she proved to be an intelligent, ambitious and focused young lady to our collective delight….. She knew what she wanted and she set out to achieve it….. By the time she came to our home, her biological mother was already deceased, a few years into her secondary education, she also lost her biological father….. And became an orphan biologically….. As time went on, we decided to relocate abroad and we decided to legally adopt her and take her with us….. By then she had lived with us for 4 years and we were pretty confident that we were doing the right thing and that with God on our side, neither of us was going to regret the move to make Ngozi our legally adopted daughter, with all the rights and privileges that go with her newly acquired status….. The adoption process was rigorous but we succeeded in the end and we brought her with us to Ireland….. My husband and I promised her that if she remained as loyal, respectful, hardworking and peaceful as she has been, then we will ensure that she becomes a university graduate and an Irish citizen, God willing.
She became a very important member of our family, providing the much needed robust domestic support while she was enrolled into the Irish educational system to work her way into the tertiary institution here….. Through us she became an Irish citizen and soon got a good job while she continued to study…..To the glory of God’s mighty name Amen….. And this year she graduated from the University ….. I am so grateful to God and proud of her for achieving this great feat because I know just how much she wanted this….. And less than a month after she graduated, she got married to her Prince Charming…. …. Talk about everything coming together for good to those who love God, who work according to His purpose…..
Ngozi and her husband
Ngozi could have given us hell in Ireland if she wanted to…. Infact she was advised to do so by some unscrupulous elements when she was about to leave Nigeria with us …. But she CHOSE to give us peace and joy and in return she is reaping peace and joy…. She played a key role in maintaining the stability of my home and now she will enjoy great stability in her own home, as it has pleased God….. We have become so close as mother and daughter that I hardly remember that she was once my househelp….. We have a deeply confiding relationship and my children are as much her children as they are her siblings too….. They love their Aunty Ngo so much and won’t hesitate to fell anyone who stands in the way of her happiness….. They are that protective of her.
It gives us tremendous joy as a family to see her become a success in both her personal and professional lives…… She is both personally, professionally and economically fulfilled…. Chineke daalu ….. My husband and I are so elated that through the grace, mercy and favour of God, we fulfilled our promise to her ….. Our promise to her that she will become successful in all aspects of her life if she remained good has been fulfilled today…. Holy Trinity in one God we bow down and worship you for enabling us to make good on our promise to her after she delivered her own part of the agreement.
Family photo
My family and I travelled en masse to Nigeria this July in order to send her forth, honour her and celebrate with her as she commenced her new life as a married woman…. It is our fervent prayer that God continues to reward her goodness and loyalty to us even as we have tried in our own little way to reward her through the grace, mercy and favour of God Amen 
From my Househelp My legally adopted DaughterIrish citizen Working class girlGraduateBeloved wife of a good man….. It took 17 yrs but she’s finally where she truly wants to be……Thank you Jesus….. Amen  ….. She was patient….. Very patient…. But she now has it all, against all odds….. Chineke daalu 
Ada and Ngozi
Humility, patience and a great sense of loyalty made her what she is today….. Humility attracted God’s favour into her life, patience helped her wait for the full manifestations of God’s blessings and her loyalty to us was rewarded with our loyalty to her….. Seeing Ngozi go from a lowly impoverished househelp to an economically viable university graduate who is now an Irish citizen and a happily married woman has added more years to my life because of the sense of fulfilment it affords me…… I am indeed deeply gratified…. Chineke daalu 
Humility is the mother of all virtues….. If you want to be served….. You must first serve!
….. With patience and humility!!!
Jesus Igweeeeeeeeeeee 

Zahra Buhari Celebrates Father's Arrival

There has been lots of jubilation after the arrival of the president just yesterday. Recently, Zahra Buhari celebrated her father’s return to Nigeria and stated that her father was like a cat with nine lives.

,On her Instagram page, she had described President Buhari as the ‘strongest’ man she knows, and went on to say a prayer for those she said wants to eliminate the president.
“God is watching,” she said and agreed with a fan who compared the president with the cat with nine lives. Photo Credit: Recall that the president’s jet, Eagle One, left London at 10.27am touched down at the Presidential Wing of the Nnamdi Azikiwe International Airport in Abuja at about 4.36pm.
Some of the figures who welcomed the president at the airport included Yemi Osinbajo, Abba Kyari, Rochas Okorocha and Mohammed Abubakar. President Buhari is expected to address the nation upon his resumption on Monday morning.
President Buhari’s return to the country triggered mixed reactions from those for and against his administration, however, amid all the bickering, discerning fellows have noted important issues the president should begin to address once he fully resumes office. Photo Credit: Getty

Saturday 19 August 2017

Ways To Manage A Grumpy Boss

So I came across this article from the muse and I think it would interest my readers, especially those going through mental stress at various work places. You might have been thinking of quitting but that is definitely not the solution In an ideal world, we would all have fantastic managers—bosses who helped us succeed, who made us feel valued, and who were just all-around great people.

Unfortunately, that's not always the case. But, whether the person you work for is a micromanager, has anger management problems, shows favoritism toward one person, or just isn't very competent, you still have to make the best of the situation and get your job done.
To help out, we've gathered the best advice from around the web for dealing with a bad boss. Try one or more of these tips to find some common ground with your boss—or at least stay sane until you find a new gig.
1. Make Sure You’re Dealing With a “Bad Boss”
Before trying to fix your bad boss, make sure you really are dealing with one. Is there a reason for her behavior, or are you being too hard on him or her?
“Observe your boss for a few days and try to notice how many things she does well versus poorly. When she is doing something “bad,” try to imagine the most forgiving reason why it could have occurred. Is it truly her fault, or could it be something out of her control?”
2. Identify Your Boss’ Motivation
Understanding why your boss does or cares about certain things can give you insight into his or her management style.
“...if the rules are totally out of control, try to figure out your boss’ motivation. Maybe it’s not that he really cares about how long your lunch break takes; he actually cares about how it looks to other employees and their superiors.”
3. Don’t Let it Affect Your Work
No matter how bad your boss' behavior, avoid letting it affect your work. You want to stay on good terms with other leaders in the company (and keep your job!).
“Don’t try to even the score by working slower, or taking excessive ‘mental health’ days or longer lunches. It will only put you further behind in your workload and build a case for your boss to give you the old heave-ho before you’re ready to go.”
4. Stay One Step Ahead
Especially when you're dealing with a micromanager, head off your boss' requests by anticipating them and getting things done before they come to you.
“…a great start to halting micromanagement in its tracks is to anticipate the tasks that your manager expects and get them done well ahead of time. If you reply, ‘I actually already left a draft of the schedule on your desk for your review,’ enough times, you’ll minimize the need for her reminders. She’ll realize that you have your responsibilities on track—and that she doesn’t need to watch your every move.”
5. Set Boundaries
Working with someone who seems to have no boundaries means that you have to go ahead and set them.
“One of the challenges of unlikable people is that they come with equally unlikable behavior—and it’s important to learn how to distance yourself from that behavior. As Robert Frost said, ‘Good fences make good neighbors.’”
6. Stop Assuming They Know Everything
Just because someone has a managerial title doesn’t mean that they have all the right answers, all the time.
“I realized then that, just because someone is in a position of authority, doesn’t mean he or she knows everything. From that point forward, I stopped assuming the title ‘manager was equivalent to ‘all knowing.’
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7. Act as the Leader
When dealing with an incompetent boss, sometimes it's best to make some leadership decisions on your own.
If you know your area well enough, there is no reason to not go ahead creating and pursuing a direction you know will achieve good results for your company. People who do this are naturally followed by their peers as an informal leader. Management, although maybe not your direct boss, will notice your initiative. Of course, you don’t want to do something that undermines the boss, so keep him or her in the loop.
8. Identify Triggers
If your boss has anger management problems, identify what triggers her meltdowns and be extra militant about avoiding those.
“For example, if your editor flips when you misspell a source’s name, be sure to double and triple-check your notes. And if your boss starts foaming at the mouth if you arrive a moment after 8 AM, plan to get there at 7:45—Every. Single. Day.”
9. Use Tips from Couples' Therapy
When dealing with disagreement, pull on some tenants from couple's therapy to work through the issue.
“Simply repeat back to him what he said and ask “Is that what you meant?” (a standard trick ripped from couples' therapy). If he agrees to your recap, ask him to tell you more about it. When you repeat someone's perspective back to him, you give him a chance to expound and, crucially, to feel heard.
10. Avoid Future Bad Bosses
When interviewing with a new company, do your research ahead of time to make sure you're not getting into another situation with a less-than-ideal manager.
“Have coffee or lunch with one or more staffers at the new company. Ostensibly, your purpose is to learn general information about the company and its culture. However, use this opportunity to discover as much about your potential boss as possible, without appearing creepy, of course.”


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Benefits Of Intimacy In Marriage

This post is for couples who have accepted sex in their relationship and couples who are still contemplating. For those who aren't married, having a sexless relationship isn't bad but to those married but still starve their partners of sex, here are five reasons why you should rethink. Sex can be a much more passionate experience when you share it with a meaningful partner. Sex may feel like a mere means of pleasure and fun but there is a lot of good that it can do for your relationship. To some people sex may seem overrated, but we give you five reasons why sex is beneficial for your relationship.

Keeps you connected
Sex is an intimate experience, which can bring you closer to your partner not just physically but emotionally. Your bedroom chemistry can also improve the chemistry in your relationship. A sexless relationship can become vulnerable over time and therefore, you need sex to keep the fire burning.

Keeps stress at bay
With the kind of lives we live, stress has become an integral part of it. This often takes a toll on your relationship. However, research shows that sex releases a feel-good chemical in the brain, which reduces stress levels. Instead of resorting to antidepressants, engage in a heated sex session to improve your well being and strengthen your relationship.
 
Keeps the romance alive
Sex may seem like a physical activity but it has an emotional appeal to it. It causes the body to release oxytocin, which is also called the love hormone that will make you feel that you need to love and trust your partner. 

Keeps the hormones balanced
We’ve already mentioned that being sexually active will calm stress but apart from that it also helps your body maintain hormonal balance. This hormonal balance will calm other emotional problems like depression and anxiety and will also increase fertility.

Keeps you both healthy
Sex can also benefit your overall health. Sex can also make you more flexible. It also acts as a metabolic and immune booster and can also fight the ageing process. This ensures that it not only keeps you and your partner healthy but also keeps your relationship vibrant.

Buhari To Arrive Nigeria Today After Sick Leave

In a statement by the Special Adviser to President Muhammadu Buhari,  it read that Buhari will be returning to Nigeria today to continue his leadership after more than 100 days of absence due to ill health.

He further added that Buhari will address the country on Monday, August 21 by 7AM. Read below:

President Muhammadu Buhari returns to the country later today, after receiving medical attention in London.

The President had left the country on May 7, this year, after handing over power to Vice President Yemi Osinbajo, who has functioned as Acting President since then.#

President Buhari is expected to speak to Nigerians in a broadcast by 7 a.m on Monday, August 21, 2017.

He thanks all Nigerians who have prayed ceaselessly for his recovery and well-being since the beginning of the health challenge.

Lagos State Government Justifies Demolition Of Buildings In Yaba

As reported by Olisa TV,  Lagos state government has justified the demolition of houses and other structures in the Abete-Iwaya area of Yaba on Friday, claiming the structures were built without approval.

The state’s ministry of physical planning & urban development said it carried out the demolition exercise in order to return the land to its rightful owners.

Chief public affairs officer of the ministry, Mrs Olubukonla Nwonah, said that the land belonged to the University of Lagos (UNILAG).

“The demolition is from our office. The property belongs to UNILAG. The development has no permit. All necessary statutory notices had been served before demolition,” Nwonah said.

A number of residents lamented that the demolition would impose further hardship on the residents of the area left homeless after their houses were pulled down and their belongings exposed to the vagaries of nature.

A non-governmental organisation, Just Empower Initiative (JEI) on Friday claimed the government failed to give appropriate notices and had failed to make plans to resettle the residents.

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Just Like Reekado Banks, Solid Star Has Been Denied Visa To Italy

According to LIB who had an exclusive interview with Mavin singer, Reekado Banks it was reported that he was denied visa to travel to UK for his 'Thank You concert' which left him a bit depressed.

 

Now, we can confirm that he's not the only celebrity to have suffered in the hands on the foreign embassies as Solidstar was also denied visa by the Italian embassy.

 

Reliable sources told LIb that Solidstar, 'applied for a Tourist Visa and was denied'. The singer who is gearing up to drop a new song titled 'International Woman' may have to postpone his European Tour as another source tells us, 'Solidstar has been denied by the Italian embassy twice in less than one month. He is supposed to go on Europe tour and tickets has been on sale already.  It's really depressing especially with the fact that he has US visa/work permit on his passport already'.

 

We hear the singer is now re-applying for work permit so he can go for his Tour later this year.
 

Friday 18 August 2017

Aliko Dangote Reveals Plans To Takeover Arsenal

The richest man in Africa Aliko Dangote has said that he intends to take over Arsenal once the construction of a new oil refinery in Lagos is completed. The Nigerian billionaire has a net worth of nearly $13 billion according to Forbes and has told Bloomberg in an interview that he is planning to make an offer to majority owner Stan Kroenke and his first move as the owner would be to fire Arsene Wenger. “The first thing I would change is the coach. He has done a good job, but someone else should also try his luck.” Dangote was quoted as saying.

Thursday 17 August 2017

Deaf And Slaying! Model Inspires Us With Her Lifestyle

Most times we feel we have all the problems in the world, but there are people who might just have greater burdens but still find a way to be happy and fulfilled. Today we would be talking about model Ayanna Michele who shared a post on Instagram yesterday evening which has gotten so many comments because of the positivity that surrounds it.She is not just a model but also a student. She talks about the fact that even though she completely lost her hearing abilities this year, she’s still ready to take on the world. She posted a photo which had the apt phrase “When you’re deaf and slaying…” Wherever you find your self, whatever situation that surrounds you always make the best of it. Its the end of the week, have you surrounded yourself with positivity? If your answer is no, then it isn't too late to pick up a glass of fresh yummy positivity and give yourself a treat.

Taraji P. Henson Serves Realness In New MAC Viva Glam Lipstick Campaign

Taraji P. Henson has collaborated with MAC to create a Viva Glam collection and the campaign photo is exquisite.  The beautiful model is serves us Diana Ross charms and we are love it! For the collaboration, there are two gorgeous new products which are a Viva Glam lipstick and a Viva Glam Lipglass.

Tuesday 15 August 2017

Bolanle Stuns On Red Carpet

Recently, Bolanle Olukanni has been in the forefront of most movie premiere's red carpet and it wasn't a surprise to see her resume her hosting duties at the premiere of ‘My Wife & I’ which took place last weekend. The stylish public figure looked exquisite in Imad Eduso’s one shoulder top and pants. She went ahead to stun in assorted accessories that caught the fancy of almost everyone present. The always stylish presenter had on a wavy hairdo and rocked a heel sandal.

Monday 14 August 2017

Kevin Hart Celebrates Anniversary With Wife Eniko

Kevin Hart and Eniko Parrish, who have a son on the way, shared a post gushing about each other on Sunday as they celebrate their first wedding anniversary. In a photo which the 38-year-old  Kevin posted it captioned “Happy 1 year anniversary to this unbelievable wife of mine,” "Thank u for all that you do. Thank you for loving me & supporting me at the highest level…Thank you for loving & embracing my kids & the way you do…Thank you for turning my house into a home…Thank you for simply making me Happy…You are & will forever be my ‘Rib’….1 year down & the rest of our life to go….Our family & our union is getting bigger & stronger & I love it!!!!!” he said.
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Friday 19 May 2017

HOW TO KNOW SHE IS INTO YOU

Hey guys,  so I came across this article
by Ossiana Tepfenhart and thought how much my readers might find this topic interesting. Read up and you could leave your ideas or just read for fun.

It can be really hard for members of either sex to admit when they like someone. But listen up, guys — if you get a nagging feeling that her sour demeanor might actually be hiding the fact that she actually kinda likes you, keep an eye out for these clues. You might be surprised to find out that she’s more into you than she’s willing to admit.

SHE’S CONSTANTLY TALKING ABOUT YOU.
Here’s something to think about: if someone’s talking about you, you’re occupying their mind in one way or another. If someone really, truly wasn’t interested in you, would they really be thinking about you all the time? If a person was repulsed by you, they wouldn’t spend any time talking about you.

SHE CONSTANTLY TAUNTS YOU 

Rare though it might be, girls might also “neg” guys the same way guys do girls. If a girl has felt slighted by you, she may turn to taunting your and making fun of you as a way to lick her own wounds. Guys, this shouldn’t take you by surprise — you’re famous for this move!

EVEN THOUGH SHE INSISTS SHE HATES YOU, SHE KEEPS BUMPING INTO YOU AND HANGING OUT WITH YOUR FRIENDS.
The more unlikely it is that she’d meet you in these “random” place, the more likely it is that she wants you to notice that she’s there.

SHE BLUSHES AROUND YOU, OR BLUSHES WHEN SOMEONE SAYS SHE HAS A CRUSH ON YOU.
Blushing is one of those things that you can’t hide, no matter what you say. It’s a sign she’s flustered, and it’s also a sign that she’s been caught red-handed.

YOU KEEP CATCHING HER STEALING GLANCES AT YOU. 
If she didn’t like you, she wouldn’t constantly be ogling you. Unless you have lobsters crawling out of your ears, you’re probably being scoped out by this girl.

YOU’VE OVERHEARD HER FRIENDS JOKE ABOUT HOW SHE LIKES YOU. 
More often than not, a girl’s friends will see right through the bullsh*t. If they’re the type who are blunt about things, then they’ll most likely joke about the fact that she has a crush on you.

HER FRIENDS HAVE TRIED TO GOAD YOU INTO TALKING TO HER. 
This is a classic move that’s done by friends when a girl’s too shy to approach you on her own. Usually, when this happens, the girl’s already asked them to play Cupid because she’s too shy to approach you on her own.

YOUR FRIENDS KEEP MENTIONING THAT IT SEEMS LIKE SHE MIGHT LIKE YOU, OFTEN CITING REASONS LISTED HERE. 
Maybe it’s time to listen to your friends? They’ll often have a better grip on reality when it comes to who does and doesn’t like you.

SHE SEEMS LIKE SHE’S TRYING TO RUB HER SEXUALITY IN YOUR FACE. 
This is an especially big sign if you recently rejected her and it seems like she’s trying to make you jealous. Subtle clues like looking at you while she’s kissing another guy, or even just overplaying her taken status may be an indicator that she’s still a bit salty over it.

YOU CAN’T HELP BUT NOTICE THAT SHE STAMMERS A LOT AROUND YOU. 
Usually, if a girl who’s normally quick-witted is stammering around you, she likes you. I speak as someone who has a tendency of both stammering and verbal diarrhea when she’s around a guy she likes. This is usually a clear indication that she’s into you.

IT’S BECOME A RUNNING GAG AT SCHOOL OR WORK. 
“Those two will get married some day. Just watch.” Sound familiar? If so, you’re dealing with a girl who has an immature way of showing a crush.

SHE’S PRANKED YOU BEFORE. 
This is one of those moves that was torn right out of the book of middle school crush moves. Pranking doesn’t always necessarily mean that she likes you, but if it’s a prank that involves some kind of physical contact, or a prank that’s cute, it might be a good sign.

SHE SEEMS FRUSTRATED WITH GETTING YOUR ATTENTION. 
Maybe that’s why she “hates” you?

SHE SAYS SHE HATES YOU, BUT HER BODY LANGUAGE SAYS OTHERWISE. 
She’s touching her hair. She’s biting her lip around you. Usually, these are signs that she’s trying to preen, or just thinking of you in a sexual way. You may want to take a cue.

ARIK AIR CONFIRMS THE ARREST OF TWO PASSENGERS

This friday morning, Arik Air  confirmed the arrest of two male passengers caught stealing from the luggage of another passenger onboard the airline’s Lagos-Abuja flight.
This was confirmed by the airline’s Communication Manager, Mr Ola Adebanji,  to the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) in Lagos.
He  further said that the suspects were handed over to the Police after the aircraft landed at the Nnamdi Azikiwe International Airport, Abuja.
One of the suspects was caught by a zealous staff who alerted the other members of the crew.
On further interrogation on the suspected thief, his accomplice was fished out.
Mr Ola Adebanji further advice passengers to always be watchful of their belongings when on board.
Source: news agency of Nigeria

Thursday 18 May 2017

Evelyn's Tale

Wale wanted to know every tiny detail that had to do with me. I didn't know how my mum would feel knowing I had a child out of wedlock so I didn't hesitate at all to take him to my mum since the pregnancy was still young and not really noticeable. Wale introduced me to all his friends, colleagues at work and even some of his extended family members. I was home! We were both in love. Wale didn't hide anything from me, so I presumed. 
One of the days Wale and I weren't together, mum asked to see me.

How long have you known this young man? Mum asked with concern in her eyes.

Six months, I lied.

I had known wale for three months and it felt like five years. 

Marriage isn't something you rush into honey, my mum sighed as she adjusted her spectacles on her slender nose bridge.
I had something special with my husband, your father. We courted for two years and I still didn't know everything about him after five years of marriage.
Trying hard not to look into her eyes, I assured her that Wale and I were the perfect match and I only hoped she believed me.
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The wedding date was finally fixed and both of our family members were busy making sure everything was going as planned. We had gotten a venue and both families agreed on Ikeja in Lagos state Nigeria. I wanted something small but Wale's mum wouldn't hear of it. She wanted her first son's wedding to be grand. She wanted it to be on the mouths of Lagos party goers and  if possible all Nigerians. I did not see any reason for the extravagant ceremony but I had no choice than to listen to my future mother-in-law.
A week to the wedding, I barely saw Wale. He was so busy with both work and preparations. Mum also felt I shouldn't see him during that week so that it would be more magical on the wedding day. I didn't really care if it was not magical. Whatever that means,  I only wanted to see my Wale.
So,  three days to our wedding, I decided to pay Wale a surprise visit at his place in Ajah, Lagos state.
It wasn't the first time I had come around without telling him. But this time Wale was furious. Through out the times I knew Wale, he had never raised his voice on me or got that angry.
I apologised without knowing why and asked him if everything was fine. He asked me to wait  outside while he got the keys to his car, so he would drop me off claiming he had an important conference to attend.
I felt disappointed so I kept silent as he drove me back to my place.
That night he called me to apologize for  flaring up and said he had been stressed because of the wedding and work. 

It's okay,  I said in a tiny voice choked up in tears. 

Baby, are you crying? Wale's deep voice echoed through the phone.
I couldn't speak much because a lot of strange thoughts were going through my head.
What if he had someone else? No!! I shook the thought off my head.
What if this was a mistake.. What if I didn't really know him.. What if ...what if... What if... My brain needed a chill. So I managed to tell Wale I was fine and just had a slight headache and needed to go get aspirin from the kitchen.
  He wasn't convinced but he still had to get off the phone.
After I felt relief from the pill I had taken. I knelt down and prayed to God. I hadn't done that in along while. I needed guidance. I knew it was too late to know more about Wale. So I prayed to God to make our relationship in marriage last. ...
To be continued

Nollywood Actress Moji Olaiya passes on

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Wednesday 17 May 2017

Fashion of the day

Blue flower printed dress on white background give you that calm spirited feeling. Could be worn on a heel or a low sandal for a casual everyday look. Photo credit: WWW.fahionnova.com

Tuesday 16 May 2017

Article: Is Jungle Justice a sign of brotherhood?

There was a time in Nigeria, humans were sold as slaves to the white men. This was so many years ago. Our mothers prayed to see the end of that dark era. Then there was unity and brother loved brother, sister loved sister. We had one thing that united us all. Brotherhood. I dare to say there was peace back then despite the pain. Brothers sang and ate together  despite the hardship. We were one..! One nation even without a country. Even without so much to eat, there was unity. My grandfather used to tell me stories of how he worked for the white men. How he learnt a lot from them and how we Nigerians helped our selves in times of need. There were morals, above all love for one another. Even without a democratic government we had leaders who were called Eze(east), Obi(south-south), Emir(North), Oba(west). They all saw to the proper care of the members of their community. These leaders never slept when their community was in  turmoil. Even the smallest person In the community meant a great deal to the king. He was the father of all!! Then people could run to their hometowns knowing they would be protected by their brothers. They could run home knowing they would be fed if they had nothing to eat. But then we had education which was supposed to be a blessing but rather it brought with it it's wicked step brothers greed, selfishness, corruption, vices, prejudice and lawlessness. Knowledge is power I once thought but what power did my country people pick? Was it the positive power or negative power? We asked the white man to leave because of his torture on us but we do worse to our selves everyday. We No longer see our selves as brothers or sisters. We compete for the smallest opportunity. We see each other as an enemy. We walk on the streets with fear of one another. Is this the country I once heard about? Because of the hardship in the country people steal and when caught are publicly humiliated and most times burnt by fellow Nigerians. People commit murder and justify their acts by saying they killed a thief. Nigerians asked for a democratic government and succeeded in getting it. So the question now is. Why take laws into your hands if we have leaders. Some say the necessary actions won't be taken, others say the thievies shouldn't be allowed to walk on the surface of the earth. Now my second question is, Is Jungle justice the answer? How can we say we are brothers and watch a fellow brother die by fire just because he stole a phone. How can you watch a human go through such pains? Now are you better than the slave traders? Is this democracy? Is this the definition of brotherhood? Say NO to JUNGLE JUSTICE!!! Let the law take its course.
Anonymous

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Monday 15 May 2017

Evelyn's Tale


I waited patiently for a day I'd have the courage to walk out of this relationship. I loved Wale with everything I was made of. I wondered how I would survive without him. Despite all Wale's bad sides, Wale was the sweetest person I had come across when he wasn't in a bad mood. Before I married Wale, I heard stories about abusive relationships. Men hitting their wives and some tough women beating their husbands. I grew up with a single mum, so I never had the opportunity to know what it looked like for a man and woman to live together. Wale changed 3months after our wedding. After he lost his job he suddenly changed. He became very aggressive and short tempered. I tried hard to stay away from him but even that pissed him off. He accused me of seeing someone else and that  was the reason I stayed away from him. Every little thing I did seemed to make him angry. Some days he would be so sweet to me but other days it was a war zone.
I met Wale at the store I once worked. He came in with a lady friend I assumed was his girlfriend. He was very chatty and extremely friendly with every one in the store. The next day he came in and asked for my number. From there, we started going out until i got pregnant. Surprisingly, Wale was excited about the baby. He became so sweet to me. Asked me to stop work and move into his place. Wale was everything I dreamt of. He was my fairytale prince charming. He did the laundry, made breakfast most of the time and spoilt me with gifts. Wale asked to see my parents and introduced me to his mum. Could all of this be real? I asked my self..... To be continued
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