Saturday 25 February 2017

WHAT NOT TO DO ON A FIRST DATE WITH HER



You meet this smashing Lady for the first time either in a Shopping mall, Club house, Party or even at Church and you are fortunate to get her mobile number. Kudos bro.. You call her up and She says its okay if you guys hang out in the weekend. You tell her it would be convenient for you on Saturday by 4pm. She's cool with it. You feel so excited but also a bit nervous, no very nervous. You remember all the other dates you've had and realize only a few picked your calls after the first date. And now you really don't want to mess this one up. Well don't fret darling, below are  5 things not to do when you get to take her on a date for the first time.

Compliments 
Ladies love to be told how lovely they look. They want to know they are the center of your attention. Tell her how adorable her dress looks and how beautiful she is. Then  she feels like a goddess. Yes I said compliments not lies please don't go over the top with it. Ladies know when they are fooled so speak the truth.

Less talk
Basics bro...Basics... you don't need to tell her about a fight you had in high school or your mums favorite painting. I hate to say it but most ladies if not all do not like men that chatter so much. Ask her questions... pay attention and listen to her speak. keep eye contact with her so that she knows she isn't being a bore. Throw her smiles to show you are enjoying the conversation.

Ex? Ex!....Eeeex!!!
Yeah I know you've been hurt a couple of times, but how the hell is it the pretty lady's fault. ...shush!! don't spoil the meal with talks like that. Don't speak of your '"Ex" unless she inquires.

Humour
I would agree not everyone might have a good sense of humor. If you can't make jokes then laugh at jokes made by her. It isn't a crime to be happy...laugh laugh laugh

Lost Rib?
What???!!!
Dude you just met this lady 2 days ago and you are already talking marriage. Well done, now she sees you as a chronic player or a desperate stalker. You don't even know if she likes you enough to date and you are busy rushing off to the alter. Please take a chill

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